Personally, I dont want to marry a woman who looks at sex like a man does, and acts the way a man does. Just doesnt have the same ring to it. Do you think that I can take her seriously? Virility still rules. These are the things that are going to be It is difficult for women like that to pair-bond. How many is to many partners for both men and women? Society is emotionally drained because of this ignorant behavior. And I ask you, why ride the Datson if youre looking for the Benz? That is what this article is really about. If you were full of life and it was so great and wonderful then you would ADMIT IT WITHOUT BEING ASHAMED. severely damage your relationship and possibly end it; trust is very important. Many women (not all) but many women have gone through there Hoe Stroll (not trying to offend, just making a point). I do wish, however, that more men could see that this issue is not so black and white. I did and am again. I see more and more people concerned about being great in the bed, more than their concerned with the loyalty Im sick of all the excuses we create in society.. Diseases are incredibly rampant.. Being forced into prostitution is tantamount to being raped, and is not a choice the woman made, and is therefore not reflective of her. Finally, above all else RESPECT HER!!! I can only hope altamera74 read your reply. Do you know that DNA from every Man U sleep with gets in your blood and stays in it for a very long time? Mentally.not so much. And I prefer to date her for a while before I sleep with her. I plan to discuss why this has happened in a future post. Not because I say so but because His Word says so. I just dont think using her past to override who she is today is the best approach. Again, have you heard of Google? What do her previous partners have to do with who she is today? I was married before her and would still be married had my first wife been half the woman she is! We women are more than what is between our legs. But if a woman slept with 20 men and didnt know half of them, then it could be safe to consider her as a hoe. I really dont think every woman who has been promiscuous wanted to be what you deem a slut. Couple days later it turned to 9. Could you find out from women's perspective why they sleep with others outside of serious relationships? Your honor, Ive been arrested for those rapes which occurred 4 years ago. Questions and Answers. you certainly would be a fool to expect that it wouldnt have Yes, men are allowed to sleep with married women but women cant do the same with men. If you sleep around it shows your unstable and dont take relationships serious. Sex is something that should be valued. more imperative because, if given a choice, men will choose the more virtuous Heck, Ive even dated a slut, for a year! lol But, even tho guys work harder at it I still think its a little anti-social for even guys. But as woman I would be ashamed to pass by and guys keep saying that I slept with her, oh and me2.. women wait for 10 men and get to choose 1. Hes stating that their promiscuity prior to marriage has developed a mindset within them that they will never be satsatisfied with one man for very long. Regardless, as I stated before you are entitled to your opinion. of life (high school/college) and people seem to not care as much as they get Speaking of lazy, I have looked over the study which you were apparently too lazy to just hyperlink to yourself after being asked to twice https://www.jstor.org/discover/10.2307/3600089?uid=3739448&uid=2&uid=3737720&uid=4&sid=21102211994521 and the man is ESTIMATING his own word that the chances of marital dissolution go up for any woman who was not a virgin prior to marrying or cohabitating with her partner. It does matters aint nobody wifein hoes you dumb ass stop debating with tha worldnobout this bs cause if it didnt matter then women wouldnt have that label hoe so shut ur bitch ass up you erased my opinion. This is what society gets for sexual liberation. In my opinion, it kinda shows what type of person you are and how much respect you have for yourself. You, as a woman, are obviously free to care (or not) how many previous partners your man has been with. Im selfish like that.LOL. Men always have an ideal and fantasize; women are guilty of that as well, but b/c of societal conditioning, we accept this double-standard. If she doesnt treat sex with respect then shes not going to consider it to be a big deal when she hooks up with someone else and leaves you wondering why you just wasted two years of your life with her. You men make so many assumptions about us women but just know that a woman with a few notches under her belt is just as capable of loving you emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and physically like any other woman. There is a strong correlation between stable marriage rate, and lack of sexual partners for the woman. Past DOES matter. They would always want to be with me even not wanting sex. There are women who have been with one man, and have gotten an STD. Im a male and feel that woman and young ladies do get a bad rap when it comes to sex and thier numbers. Just women who act out and try to dodge the consequences of doing illogical stuff. This makes sense. Hes not stating that women are divorcing because they cheat. As one commenter posted, were all adults so I say do as you please. He look at them both. You need both to function but then again so do women. Women did not have the choices they have now and had to abide with the double standard imposed on them. And guess what? Yes it matters. And, if we try to claim that we haven't ..then, guess what? At times, those emotions cause us to make poor decisions. It honestly is a question of a womans character. I do believe there are some women that simply enjoy sex, but I would by lying if I said i felt that the majority of women who are promiscuous are doing it simply because they love it. A pedophile cant make a mistake. Reframe all of it into something that is actually constructive and supportive. I will say though, that a persons past is their past and a more salient question is how many people have you slept with in the last year? or what is your attitude to sex right now?. They are hard limits for a reason. I feel her past sexual experiences are better than anything I can do or achieve, but she wont ever say, what can I do, I feel Id like to know everything about her even if its painful so I can rebuild my confidence and trust fron this point on. Does that past lover (so to speak) affect her current situation? All that energy goes to personal projects or commuter games. Because mens focus on a I personally dont need or want a Relationship, but I also believe that women who dont ask their male partners how many women theyve slept with then they are desperate housewives. However, the end result is still the same. Same boat. Right..so why would I want her after all that wear and tear.LOL Id rather all that Wear and Tear come from me. Im a small endowed male. Hi Stephan. I myself agree with not judging a future mate depending solely on the number of past partners. This is why the whole idea of using her number of past partners as criteria is unnecessary. I feel sorry for whoever marries the likes of you. People rarely change. Life goes on and if they are not insomeones oh well. See I then made the mistake of going through all of her old emails and weve talked about it alot it never makes me feel any better about it just worse to be honest to know the things shes done, now shes a mom, we have a baby together and it kind of taints the whole thing. Hes trying to get me to be faithful. Exactly, the past should only be used as a way to better understand who that person has been and who they have become. The commandment was and is for both genders of mankind. One of the men I sleep with wants to marry me and is very jealous. I think the double standard is wrong, but the answer for me is to use the same standard for men as we currently use for women. I met her online, she opened up to me pretty much straight away and has always been very honest with me. Wow! Now does that change your perspective? And no, I have not slept with more than 10 women and yes I am 30 yrs old so I swear to you that it can be done. .Some people cant stop thinking about how they raped or murdered somebody. You think we want you all used up. The first was with a woman who had lost her virginity to her bf not long before we got together. What do women do in the meantime? As you are starting to realize, it isnt worth holding over someones head, especially when it is the woman you love. Sleeping around might be related to testosterone in both sexes. Level-Headed. Maybe you think yes, but I say no, and I say that the actual number should not be the true focus in evaluating a potential partner. Whats cool is a man being willing to marry a woman he genuinely loves and connects with regardless of how she once was in the past. Those who feel the need to take this approach typically have some deeper issues they are not properly addressing. Some may argue that it speaks to her character. Why don't you take up this fun quiz and see who the future queen of your heart is going to be? rates, confused male and female roles, teen pregnancy and unwed mother figures I found a guy, we connected so well, he told me about his past relationship which lasted for 4 yrs. but not an automatic deal-breaker. Far from it, but I definitely am not gonna freak out about the numbers game! Once you find the right Man, cover him with COCHIE JUICE, give him more than he can handle. There are an abundance of other important And I really dont care if you feel sorry for me or not. I know you will receive the blessings you deserve, just hold on to faith and take the time to forgive the people in your past. It Matters Somewhat But S*** Everybody Then Dated A Freeak Or Hoe Or B**** & Probably Seen Them In The Mall All Hugged Up Like Damn I Use Holla At That.We Grown Now Sometimes People Change.!!! No one said that men cant sleep around in their 20s. Its like buying a car with 1,000,000 miles on the odometer lol!!! I totally agree with what youre saying and how history is a big part of the males ideals when it pertains to women and what they should and shouldnt do in reference to sex, vocation, etc. Later they got their act together, graduated high school, and got their masters degree. Everyone has a right to their opinion and position. I run into more issues with the fact that some women have literally had over 15 boyfriends, and have slept with them all, multiple times even. That to me just doesnt seem like it is the best way to go about things, but that is my opinion and I will respect yours. You have to go deeper to get a clearer picture and to see if this is still a woman battling certain issues or a woman who has been far removed from what she once was. Nobody is talking about women who are prudish or disinterested in sex. Women want a guy who wants a woman to love and respect herself to value a And if I never read this post again and some young man is dealing with the same situation. You really want to marry miss double penetration? You would have to be in it to understand. Being young is no excuse for being a whore. Its my sincere opinion that if we lived in a more egalitarian society the issues surrounding promiscuity wouldnt be such an issue and people wouldnt be so quick to judge one another. Probably not while having sex with her either. Think about this: There was a girl in college who was the self-proclaimed whore of our department. & What makes it worse is even most women have adopted this way of thinking ! Nothing sums it up better, I wish I could sit down and heave beer with you. I'm trying to reflect on it and I'm going to bring it up to my therapist but things are moving fast and I won't see my therapist for a week from today. Women have those same urges as well. The double standard thing is something that a lot of people ignore because I guess they feel as if, women should behave in such manner that is acceptable to society! If youknow your man is secure, then why wouldnt you tell him the truth? No, they dont. Also statistically, men and women who have had many partners set unrealistic standards for their future partners to adhere to. If I feel an aversion to a female who is interested in me bc I know she has slept around, its totally UP TO ME if I want to give her a chance at all. Yes, they will try to have their cake and eat it too, once they realize the error of their ways, but by then, its too late. Thanks you! As far as cheating goes, even the most decent girl will cheat if a guy is attractive to her- given the time and place. Lol wow, do you realize there is a difference between wanting a girl that has been around versus not judging a girl that has been around. 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